[This part is easy to explain, and merely the truth, so he doesn't hesitate in giving it. Where he assumes he'd have to specify that he won't offer a bite with others in the city, it doesn't feel necessary here. Elle wouldn't push him that way.]
I don't do casual sex well, so I've put aside trying for it during my stay here. Anyone I'm intimate with, I prefer to take my time with. I'm not inflexible, but I won't do, or say anything to you that would mean belittling, or treating you in a way that's less than you're worth. [He can get into more detail there, if needed, but for now he leaves the explanation there.]
Sex is personal. It's how I've made my deeper connections with people. [He realizes.] If the enjoyment isn't mutual and tailored to each person's desires and who they are, it's only two ships passing meaninglessly in the night.
[He knows that his preferences are a lot and make him sound like a walking gothic romance novel, but it's inevitable. This is simply how things are for him.]
I understand if that's asking too much, or 'too intense'.
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I don't do casual sex well, so I've put aside trying for it during my stay here. Anyone I'm intimate with, I prefer to take my time with. I'm not inflexible, but I won't do, or say anything to you that would mean belittling, or treating you in a way that's less than you're worth. [He can get into more detail there, if needed, but for now he leaves the explanation there.]
Sex is personal. It's how I've made my deeper connections with people. [He realizes.] If the enjoyment isn't mutual and tailored to each person's desires and who they are, it's only two ships passing meaninglessly in the night.
[He knows that his preferences are a lot and make him sound like a walking gothic romance novel, but it's inevitable. This is simply how things are for him.]
I understand if that's asking too much, or 'too intense'.